A dumbass gotta do what a dumbass has gotta do, right? Purity Sin is the name of my youtube channel.
In fact, purity culture uses this as motivation to advocate even harder for purity.
Maybe you're a guy trying to figure out if this is the right woman for you.
Basically, you start out completely pure- emotionally and physically- and then every crush, every romantically-charged bit of physical contact with a member of the opposite sex, every dating or courting relationship erodes your purity a little.
And we count our thoughts and actions as sin, we pray, we believe God forgives us, but still, we are impure.
Not when he was, you know, actually sexually abusing them.